You may have cultivated a certain mindset which has resulted, for example, in a fear of not being able to fully satisfy your partner. This could be because you feel that you are relatively inexperienced in sexual matters, and may have had some lukewarm experiences in the past, which still bother you.

Some folk are also afraid of the emotional intimacy which may come with a physical relationship with a partner.  They often try to avoid intimacy because of a fear of being responsible for the emotional stability of another person. Continue reading…